Think of a situation when nothing is going on your way and it is that point in life when another mistake can lead you to the failure. That situation is Love – 40, another mistake you loose the game.
Life has its own way to play tennis with us, our life moves further like the game of tennis.
We are the pilot of our own life, nobody can make us inferior without our own consent. Our life start without difficulties, we are free birds same as the game of tennis when we start we have points – Love all, but life and game are the real deal, we often face challenges such as LOVE-40. Love as per oxford English dictionary – For Pleasure rather than profit. Love never make other feel bad, just as in tennis it is said, “You may be a crap tennis player, but we still love you”
In the same way in life we often encounter unfavourable situation but one should not run from it rather stand up and say my problem is bad but I still love you, after all you learn something if you love to face the challenges, you’ll learn to deal with them. So just face unfavorable situation and never give up.
Here are some points to be considered when you face such situations.
1) Stop a while and Relax
When we’re playing fast we often forget to relax and re-adjust our strategy. A business occurring continues losses, a relationship is not working well, problems in studies etc. We sometimes further complex the situation in hurry, Just don’t go with the flow, stop and adjust your sails according to the wind. Sometimes it is good to stop, take a look around and face it.
2) Don’t be perfectionist, cover your basics
Basics of any game are the core and major point of winning, it is the main thing that solve your critical problems. You can win in short run but life is so long we need perfectionism to solve the problem correctly and in the long run our basics help us to sustain.
3) Stop Over thinking
You can’t always win always remember that. Use your energy to find a solution rather than wasting energy in over thinking. Make your strategy to solve the problem. If you continue thinking again and again, you are creating extra pressure on your shoulders and nothing else.
4) Don’t blame others
Its so easy to point finger at someone and blame others for your failures, you only loose people who wanted to be around you by blaming others. As a result when you need them they may no longer be for you. You should not blame others, accept your mistakes and work upon it. Just as a tennis player should not blame the tennis court for loosing the game instead he should work hard and try to win again.
5) Practice Gratitude
We mostly remember our troubles than our blessings, like how I come to a point “Love-40″ unfavorable situation, chances of success are so small, one more error you loose. These leads you to the stress zone, fear of failure, bring tensions so just AVOID it and practice gratitude, think about the future strategy like what you are going to do next while keeping your blessings in mind.
6) Don’t compare your situation with others
Everyone has their weakness and strength, you are not design to be in the crowd. A person doing skydiving is different from a person doing sea diving, both have different exposures, different techniques. You should avoid the unfair comparison and make your own identity.
7) Accept, learn and Grow
Accept your flaws, learn from it and grow.
Hopefully these points give you the advantage situation as in tennis AD:40. Its just the efforts in the right direction which leads to a favourable situation and please always love your problems, situation, whatever hard time comes in your way. No mater how hard the unfavorable situation may be. You have the power to overcome any obstacle in your life.
So just Get up and don’t give up.