It’s easy…


More often if you ask a girl like me, what does a guy has to do to win over me, to impress me, I would just say- “I like being alone. Therefore, in order to win me over, your presence has to feel better than my solitude. “…

But in most cases you get a reply like- “It’s easy to impress me. I don’t need a fancy party to be happy. Just good friends, good food, and good laughs. I’m happy. I’m satisfied. I’m content.”

So what makes a guy capable of us? Yes it’s difficult to understand girls but there are a few vulnerabilities. Make sure to exploit them. Just like a hacker does examine the vulnerabilities of software and cracks through them when the right time comes. Same is with girls, they are soft and tender as a flower and very next moment ferocious like a lioness. Don’t you ever have been through such a situation where your girlfriend, or your wife, or your mother has been like goddess Kali to you?

So what makes us we girls so complicated. Is it the situations or our unlikely, untimely happening mood swings? That is what guys call it, the P –phase right. But sorry guys it’s just the time and the circumstances.

For me my silence is my best friend, if you want to be a part of my life you have to be better than my silence. It’s not that easy but not impossible too. It’s easy to impress them, buy them good food, spend quality time with them that’s all they want but for me it’s more. I want the whole you to be with me , not just a part of you. Yes I know guys can focus with undivided attention at once I want you to listen to me all at once.

Just get me some good books and a nice cup of latte, which would impress me more than your money or your personality. I yearn for a friend be that friend for me who can spend hours listening to my stories. And still finds them interesting each time I repeat the same story. I wish to create a whole new world, just need you to be a part of it, be that part to me.

It’s easy to impress them, just hang out a bit and be nice they will be impressed easily. But you never know when the line between friendship and love is crossed and you are more than a friend to them. Be cautious, it’s contagious. But when you come to me, you would know what my dignities are. I will make you yearn for love and ultimately you will learn how to tackle with such feelings.

There is nothing more interesting than studying the psychology of us: girls. I bet you would win a Nobel if you are ultimately able to predict the reason of being such an absolutely unique species and the reason of our existence.

Impressing a girl is an art to be mastered. Your right partner would be sitting next to you reading a newspaper while you are going to office or may be just on the next table in you cafeteria. You just need to make the right move. Take a chance, it’s easy.